Monday, April 23, 2012

How do You deal with it

When presented with potentially life altering news, how do you deal with it? A relationship break up, an illness,a loss of a friend or family member, a job loss. How do you choose to deal with it? It is your choice. You decide how you will deal with it. It is said life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we handle it. Will you let it defeat you or will you put it under your feet and use it as a stepping stone to your next accomplishment or great adventure. It is said everything happens for a reason. Take a moment and reflect. Ask why me? why now? Journal about it if you need to yet do not dwell to long. We lose a lot of productivity lamenting about what "might have been". You only have control over one person's reactions and behaviors and that is yours. Choose to be. Choose to be positive. Choose to be happy and if you are not happy then help other people be happy (because this does bring happiness). There will always be someone in need of your experience and advise or just simply your love and care. When you are focused on your plight and your plight only. You deprive the world of the blessings you have to offer. So today choose to be a BLESSING. Do not be too long distracted. Many people are watching you.

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